As someone who finds their identity hard to grasp, this book has provided me with great comfort by putting the unexplainable into prose. It has been a long time since a book has held the power within its pages to make me feel how the author feels: to transport you into their student room in a small city in England or a bustling metropolis in China. I cannot recommend this little book enough as I can safely say that it is a book you will read over and over and over and over again.